“People are anxious to improve their circumstances but unwilling to improve themselves, they therefore remain bound.”
~ James Allen
Who is responsible when you are not healthy, lean and fit? Who is responsible when you wake up dreading each day instead of jumping out of bed with excitement? Who is responsible when you have no true friends? Who is responsible when your relationships with loved ones are unstable or broken? Who is responsible when you are not wealthy? Who is responsible when you are not living life to the fullest?
Ultimately, it is YOU!
I know this may be a bitter pill to swallow, but the sooner you do, the sooner you may move on and start creating the life of your dreams. Until you stop playing the role of a victim, you will allow circumstance and other people to shape your life. You will live small and be hidden in the shadows of others. Is this your destiny or are you destined for more? I believe we all have the power to shape our destiny. We are all destined for greatness, but before this can happen, we must take control of our life.
How are we supposed to regain control of our life and be free of the victim role? At some point, you must say to yourself ‘if it’s going to be, it’s up to me!’ As I teach in my book ‘One Habit At A Time’, there are only 3 things we (human beings) have control over – our thoughts, feelings and actions. Once you learn how to take control of these 3 aspects, you will be free of victimhood and you can create the life situation you desire. If you want to learn exactly how to take control of your thoughts, feelings and actions, then I urge you to purchase a copy of ‘One Habit At A Time’. It will help you find the power within yourself to start shaping your destiny. (If you took nothing else from the book but this alone, you would get your money’s worth multiplied by at least a 1000)
In closing, I want to make something clear. Positive and negative circumstances will always be a part of your life. The key is not to allow these circumstances to determine how you are going to live your life. When you are in full control of your thoughts, feelings and actions, you will have the power to rise above the most difficult of circumstances. This I promise.
SHAPE YOUR DESTINY!
Holistic Health Practitioner and Educator